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When Life is Full

November 14, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

When life is full of many good opportunities it’s really easy to have discipline slip off the plate altogether.

Exercise. Blogging. Reading. Laundry. Even having regular food in the house!

Are you helped by routines? I didn’t realize how much I need them until living the past 10 + days without them.  The simple act of getting ready in the morning is different because my stuff is in a cosmetic bag instead of it’s usual place.

I don’t want to sound like I’m complaining. I simply can’t keep moving forward consistently without routines.

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(our visit to Florida: the land of flat)

I’m looking forward to Monday. Yep, I just said that. I am looking forward to getting back to regular life.

Exercise. Juicing. Reading. Writing. And yes, even grocery shopping.

I’d love to know how you handle life when it’s mostly out of the ordinary.

I could use all the help!

Filed Under: rhythm of life Tagged With: routines

Can Fiction Save Your Sanity?

November 6, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

Once there was a little girl with a bright, inquisitive mind who possessed a passion for consuming the written word. She read good books, books beyond her years. She often searched for the meaning of an unknown word in the library-sized dictionary her mother purchased for just such occasions. Her understanding of words grew and so did her vocabulary; it was one area she received affirmation from her mother, from whom an encouraging word was rarely heard.

From all appearances the little girl’s world was lovely; she had her own room with a full size canopy bed, matching furniture, and her very own bookshelf filled with her familiar friends —books.

At 9 she was the possessor of her very own library card; a ticket to freedom and imagination. Trips to the library were regular, but she had always finished her books sooner than the trip to seek new ones, which left her to develop a habit of re-reading one of the favorites. Books were safe. They provided a way of escape from the chaos of her home life. She would go to her room to lose herself in a book as often as opportunity provided.  This little one had to find a way out from the tension, the turmoil of parents whose lives were stretched too thin with tempers to prove it. Her only brother was often the cause of chaos at home; born too soon in an era without knowledge or resources to aid families with difficult children; his special needs were not visibly obvious so his outbursts and behaviors were often shamed. Teachers mis-understood him, family mis-understood him and he was often considered a “problem”. So sad…

It was during these years of childhood she learned to “go away” in her imagination; carrying the characters and dialogue, settings and events of books as internal comfort within the external chaos. Her imagination saved her…

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A great-aunt wisely sent the little girl a very special series of books. Special because her middle name and the main character’s name are the same. Special because they were all hard-back, grown up looking books with beautiful book jackets. These books were published the year her mother was born and that made them OLD.

Anne’s story was intriguing to the little girl from the first pages. Set in a part of the world and a time in history she was not familiar with, the little girl wanted to know where Prince Edward Island was, if it was a real place. She ran downstairs to search the family encyclopedia; P.E.Island was real and was located off the coast of the Canadian province of Nova Scotia. If Prince Edward Island was real, then Anne could be real too!

It didn’t take long for the little Anne to fall madly in love with Anne Shirley. She wished her hair was a lovely auburn, she grew her brown hair long to be able to braid it. She painted on her play house door “Green Gables”.  Little Anne was caught up in the beauty and freedom of imagination.

“Isn’t it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive—it’s such an interesting world. It wouldn’t be half so interesting if we knew all about everything, would it? There’d be no scope for imagination then, would there?”

Scope for imagination. Kindred spirits. Love for Octobers.

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Ah what would I have done without the Great White Way or imagining the possibility of a bosom friend like Diana?

I am so thankful that my Great-Aunt Mildred sent me those precious books at a time in life that was so challenging.

If you have not read Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery, I highly recommend it.  To quote another great author:

“No book is really worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally – and often far more – worth reading at the age of fifty and beyond.” C.S.Lewis

Filed Under: Book Recommendation, Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: Anne of Green Gables, L.M.Montgomery

It’s November! What’s Next?

November 3, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

Since November is often identified with things we’re thankful for, I’ve decided to spend some of my blog focus this month on books I’m thankful for.

I have a long list of fiction and non-fiction books that have been a delight to me over many years and recent titles as well; some overtly spiritual and those whose authors are spiritual people but have written in an under wraps manner.  I hope you’ll find this series one that encourages you to read (or re-read) at least one of these recommendations.

Today I want to express my love and appreciation for the book My Utmost for His Highest.

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I first heard of this book in 1996. I had recently joined a Bible study at our new church. The woman who spoke at the Bible study simply quoted from the devotional, but the quote really resonated with me. At the time our sons were ages 7 and 1. I was a busy woman to say the least.

“My determined purpose is to be my utmost for His highest—my best for His glory.”

It hit me like a sock in the stomach. How was I determined? What was my purpose? Mostly to get through the day, not focusing on being the best person I could be; more like not killing my sons or yelling at my husband. That quote both convicted me and sent me to our local Christian bookstore, the Parable. I found a hardbound “modern” version that was on sale and scooped it up.

I have used the daily devotional as a journal of sorts. I didn’t think much about it at first but as I have read and re-read I write the year next to my underlining and I am reminded of what I was going and growing through at the time.

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Oswald Chambers spoke these words, he didn’t actually  write these entries.  His wife was a stenographer before they married and kept herself focused during Oswald’s lectures at the Bible Training College of London by taking down her husband’s words as he spoke them.  It wasn’t until after Oswald’s untimely death at the early age of 43 that she was encouraged to compile his lectures into the format we know now.

I have read this devotional for 18 years. It is the greatest tool in God’s hands in my spiritual growth; second only to the Bible itself.  Oswald is not an encourager. There is no fluff. He often calls me out in a very direct manner pointing out an area of my life that hasn’t been brought to God in the process of being made like Christ. Oswald used vocabulary that was common to his day which was late 1800s to 1917 when he died from complications of an emergency appendectomy. No antibiotics in those days.

From today’s entry:

“Will I surrender to Jesus Christ, placing no conditions whatsoever as to how the brokenness will come?”

No fluff. Just straightforward questions and pointing us to our need for staying close and reliant upon the Holy Spirit to live ‘worthy of the calling with which we have been called.’

If you are looking for a daily devotional that will challenge you to grow in your faith and trust of God you need look no further.

My Utmost for His Highest–my best for God’s glory. I am truly thankful for the teachings of Oswald Chambers. God has used them in my life for His glory.

Filed Under: Book Recommendation, Encouragement, Thankfulness Tagged With: devotional, My Utmost for His Highest, Oswald Chambers, spiritual growth

Finish Well

October 31, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

This month of the #write31days challenge has been quite a ride!  Posting daily has not been a discipline for me in my six year blogging life and I have to say, I’ve actually enjoyed it in many ways. There were hard days and easy days, but that’s just life, right?

I am spending the weekend in the mountains of Idyllwild, CA with the sweet people of Westminster Christian Assembly. The theme of the weekend is based on Psalm 97:1 Let all the earth rejoice!  I will have the privilege of speaking three times: Rejoicing in Rest, Rejoicing in Re-creation and Rejoicing in Renewal.

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I love being able to put into action what I’ve been learning: to rely on listening the Holy Spirit to guide my planning and preparation; demonstrating what Living in Tandem can look like.  These are God’s people and He knows what they will benefit from hearing, what encouragement they need.

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We all need to make time to be silent with Him.

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We all need time to re-create in His Presence.

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We all need to invest and prioritize time with others to be living life with them.

Learning to live in tandem is a process. No one gets on the bike and takes off without developing some awareness of what’s involved. Submitting my will to God has not come without struggle or missteps. But He looks at me and you with eyes filled with love when we’ve slipped…

‘“My grace is sufficient for you for My power is made perfect in weakness..” Therefore I will boast all the more in my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.’

I need reminding that the work is already done. All I need to do is join in with what God is already doing. Henri Nouwen said it this way:

Spiritual Formation is simply following the movements of the Spirit.

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Truly friends, Living in Tandem is simply that; learning to follow rather than trying to control.

My prayer for us is simple.

Help us to know You more Lord. Help us to be willing to let go of our need to control. Help us to follow the movements of the Spirit where He leads.

Help us.

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Hope, Living in Tandem, Personal

Why Should Living in Tandem Matter to You?

October 30, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

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It’s Day 30 of the #write31days challenge. I’ve tried to express the benefits I’ve experienced from learning to live in tandem in relationship with God, my husband and others. I imagine there’s at least one of you who has looked at the theme and thought Why does this matter to me?  I don’t ride a tandem bicycle. I don’t even have a husband.

Why should Living in Tandem matter to you?

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I now realize the most powerful action we can take after responding to God’s invitation to become part of His family, is learning to take the back seat in relation to God. The Biblical term is submission.

God the Father had an amazing plan to redeem the whole world. That plan would only work if the Son would actively participate. Being fully God, Jesus the Son took on the humble form of a human baby. He who had been worshiped by angels became a helpless infant born into the poorest circumstances; a feed trough for animals. Part of this amazing plan, Jesus the Son showed us the Father. Through His life and choices He also showed us how to submit His will to God’s will.  In the ultimate act of submission, Jesus expressed His opinion, His desire several times. But God the Son said not My will but Yours be done as the Son submitted His will to the Father’s will.

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Submission isn’t easy. Jesus showed us that. It requires a sacrifice. We give up our right to our own way to choose to follow Jesus on the Way. Submission brings about a depth in relationship with God the Father that demonstrates respect, love, trust and obedience to His plan for your life.

And in God’s amazing economy He blesses your sacrifices with His Presence, His peace, His love, His power to accomplish the hard things you face.

Like forgiving those who have wounded you.

The way up is the way down. A paradox of submission.

Living in Tandem matters for each one of us. It is simply a metaphor for what God’s Word teaches us.

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Living in Tandem teaches us that the hurried life, the too full calendar, the distracting ourselves to death, do not fill the need, the emptiness that is in the center of our lives. Only God can fill our need. And He doesn’t force Himself in; we need to make the choice to take the back seat and learn from Him.

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Living in Tandem means learning to listen to the One who is in the front seat; the One who knows where you’re headed, knows how to navigate the bumps and hills, knows when to push harder and when to rest. Living in Tandem means you follow and share and do your very important part. But you don’t do more than is yours to do either.

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I want so much to express how different I am than 18 years ago! I want to share this freedom from the lies of do more, be less. That’s how the enemy twists submission.

Grace tells us we are enough. Satan tells us we’ll never be good enough.

In the words of Bob Dylan…You gotta serve somebody…

I pray you’ll choose to get on the Tandem with God.

Filed Under: Encouragement, Hope, Living in Tandem, Personal Tagged With: God, Living in Tandem, submission

Relationships are Better in Tandem

October 29, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

We are meant for relationship. We’re born into a family and people are an integral part of life for each of us. Yet our lives get so full of doing that we hardly have time for simply being with people.

No agenda. Just being together.

I’ve had relationships not work well. Lots of reasons that has been true but when something in a relationship doesn’t work smoothly it hurts.

I don’t know about you but my natural inclination is one of two responses: withdraw from the hurt or defend my position.  Neither of which moves toward the person to work things out.  So the hurt doesn’t get dealt with and then the relationship is broken in some way.  Blegh.

I’m learning a different way.  The way toward others instead of away from.  The Way.

Paul tells us to do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests but also to the interests of others.

This Way is Jesus’s way of being in relationship. Choosing to think of others as more significant than myself is an intentional choice. It’s not natural. But I will say that when I have made that choice the relationship works more smoothly. Following Jesus isn’t just reading your Bible and going to church. Following Jesus means living with different choices, priorities, purpose. Following Jesus closely is living in tandem with Him.

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Jesus really is everything.

Filed Under: Encouragement, Living in Tandem, Personal Tagged With: Jesus Way

Learning to Laugh

October 28, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

I don’t know about you but sometimes I get the wrong impression about what life is “supposed to look like” as a Christ follower. Some Christians five being a Christian a bad name. All serious business and definitely no room for laughter.

That’s not the Jesus I have come to love in Scripture.

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Please don’t get me wrong here; there is plenty to be serious about in the world.  People are homeless. Hungry. Escaping horrible situations in their homelands. There are devastating Earthquakes. Floods. Diseases. Children are being abused. Trafficked. If I continue writing the list which is longer still, I will have to get up from the computer and find the Kleenex.

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Jesus knew how to take things seriously, too. He was serious about eternal life, about showing us the Father, about healing, about spiritual growth, about taking the Good News to the ends of the earth and making disciples. And much more.

He also knew how to have fun and rest and cook and live life.  If you think I’m making this up, I’m not. Read John’s gospel account.

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I think in the fulness of God, Jesus shows us how to live a balanced life. The center point in the balance is having God at the center of our lives. Recognizing I am not the center point of my life has been part of my learning journey. Seeing God at the center, on the throne, on the front seat of the tandem, has brought me such freedom.

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I’m learning to laugh again.

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Filed Under: Encouragement, Hope, Living in Tandem, Personal Tagged With: Gospel of John, Jesus

What’s in a Metaphor?

October 27, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

Eighteen years ago when my mentor recommended that I try riding a tandem with my husband I had no idea the breadth of what adventure was ahead.

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I began the journey petrified to be on a bike without my own brakes and steering (or way to see!). I struggled with the lack of control!

I still deal with the residual affects of years of asserting myself into every situation as the one who “knew it all”. That is not pretty. Also, it lacks a Christ-like characteristic…

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I will be the first to tell you the bike started as the focus but God used this bike and the process of learning to let go of control as one of the biggest tools in the process of my sanctification. And I’m still in process by the way.

So what’s in this metaphor of a tandem bike? Of Living in Tandem with others? With God?

Well I’ve learned to see things from quite a few different perspectives.

But God…

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Has shown me one ride at a time, one day at a time, no, one MOMENT at a time that I am not the One in control. That role belongs to Him only.

But God…

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Has given me many opportunities to learn to follow Him by listening and letting go.

Letting go is hard.

But God…

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Has given me Himself instead of the physical and emotional things I have hung onto out of fear.

But God…

Has given me a relationship with my husband that has grown into a friendship of epic proportions.

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And I know I wouldn’t be the woman He has grown me into today if I’d said

“I could NEVER do that!” The metaphor of a tandem bike has changed my perspectives.

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What are you saying No to God about today? What shift does your perspective need to take?

Filed Under: Encouragement, Hope, Living in Tandem, Personal Tagged With: God

Moving Forward is by Being Still

October 26, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

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It’s Day 26 of #write31days and as I have reflected daily on really what I’ve learned from the #LivinginTandem metaphor is a paradox;

We move forward by being still.

Yesterday when I spent some time listening to God through the reading of His Word, I heard a refrain I’ve heard and ignored before:

Be Still.  Be Still.

In all my focus on to do lists and thinking I have to keep doing, keep accomplishing, the result is always stress & anxiety. The refrain is

Not Enough.  Not Enough. Like this glass that is half empty.

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Or is it half full?

But God whispers again

Be Still and know 

So I sit to listen again to the heart of Paul’s letters…

Grace

Peace

Christ is all and in all

Christ in you the hope of glory

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And I see. I hear.

Lay aside the old way.  Be renewed. Put on the new self. (Col. 3:12-17)

Daily be transformed by the renewing of my mind. (Romans 12:2)

By the mercies of God. (Romans 12:1)

Moving forward is by Being Still.

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Being still seems counter intuitive to being productive. But God consistently gives me wisdom, strength, encouragement to share, and most of all, the peace of His Presence when I have set aside my demanding to do list to sit quietly with His Word open and my heart ready to listen.

Laying aside old ways, being renewed day by day and putting on the new self as Paul defines in Col. 3:12-17 is a process, not a one time event. We are complex beings with many facets. We are created in the image of God you know. So this journey, this living in tandem with God is full of ups and downs, hills and valleys. But the best news? You’re never alone.

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Filed Under: Encouragement, Hope, Living in Tandem, Personal, Spiritual Disciplines Tagged With: Living in Tandem, write31days

Sabbath Listening

October 25, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

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“In the relentless busyness of modern life, we have lost the rhythm between work and rest.”  Wayne Muller

One of the greatest benefits of this empty nest season of life is open calendar space. I have learned to love whitespace on the calendar.  Ironically the Hubster has asked for this open calendar space since we were married 24 years ago.  I am unfortunately a very stiff-necked rebellious woman who wants her own way most of the time.  This may or may not be the reason I memorized this verse 15 years ago.

“Who is wise? Let them realize these things.

    Who is discerning? Let them understand.

The ways of the Lord are right;

    the righteous walk in them,

    but the rebellious stumble in them.”  Hosea 14:9

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See this lifeless tree in the middle of the photo? This is a symbol to me of drying up by following my own way of doing things.

It hasn’t been easy for me to let go of my own ways. Sometimes it’s still hard. But when I slow myself down and listen to those words again,  my rebellious heart is reminded that the ways of the Lord are right.  His ways are higher than my ways.

In quietness and trust is your strength…

Sabbath listening is a discipline. The practice of listening makes me stop doing things like laundry and web surfing to sit with God’s Word open, with my heart open, and listen to what the Spirit impresses on my heart & mind as I read and ponder.

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It has become my favorite day of the week.

Filed Under: Encouragement, Living in Tandem, rhythm of life, Spiritual Disciplines Tagged With: Sabbath, spiritual discipline, Wayne Muller

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I am a native California girl married to my best friend, Colin; we currently live and work in the Silicon Valley. I am privileged to be mom to two fantastic grown sons, mom-in-law to a wonderful daughter, and recent Mimi to a grand-daughter! On any given Saturday, you can see my hubster and I out on our tandem bike somewhere, enjoying the beauty of creation! Read More…

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