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Family Fun Fridays: Camping Re-visited

September 19, 2014 By Lisa Lewis

It’s Friday. Maybe you’re exhausted from this first month of school.  Maybe you’re excited about what you might do with your family as the fall is easing into view in the weather and on the calendar.  Either way, I want to encourage you to think about getting outside with your littles and enjoying God’s beautiful gifts of Creation.

Whether you take them to the park, the beach, or the school playground, getting outdoors is an important part of childhood.  Having adventures together as a family is fun and memorable.

We’re a camping family.  Ever since the boys were babies we’ve camped.  They loved to go up the coast into the redwoods. They loved to camp near the beach to go boogie boarding.  They loved campfires (building and lighting, they’re boys after all) and especially loved the eventual s’mores.

We got the wild idea in the spring of 2001 that we should take the boys out of school (WHAT!!??) and camp around the country; giving them a taste of the grandeur and immensity of this nation.  We planned for months! We taped a map on the wall and let the boys put map pins on the places they wanted to see.  The Hubster and I added our own pins, too. We researched destinations and estimated costs; plotting a course that would circumnavigate the lower 48 states.

And we did it in this

van

This trip was pre-smart phone and google maps.  We had a gps and a phone that would connect to the internet via dial up modem (ancient tech history) which worked 1 out of 10 times!

We camped on average 5 out of 7 days; stopping to visit family and friends around the country.  We listened to music, sang songs, hiked beautiful trails, saw amazing vistas, met wonderful people and most of all, made memories.  Seeing historic places first hand, rather than in books, made a huge difference in appreciation of what the Minutemen had to go through or why the battle at Gettysburg cost the lives of so many.  Both of our sons grew up loving history; due in part to this trip of living history.

Like labor & delivery, there were hard parts but the good outweighed the bad.  We got one speeding ticket (seriously? in a fully loaded VW?); had a few emotional meltdowns (mom hates wind, bridges and semi-trucks); but were blessed with no mechanical issues and almost a completely healthy trip (dad got an ear infection).

It wasn’t always neat and tidy

inside of van

but the four of us managed to live in here and get along for the months of September and October of 2001.  Our sons were 13 and 6. Yes, that is a 7 year gap. In school they wouldn’t have see one another; too many years between them. But on the road trip they learned together, had fun together, argued about space together, and learned to resolve conflict without being sent to their rooms.  We read the Bible together, talked about God’s creativity as we witnessed so many different rock formations, rivers, trees, and people.  He covered our trip with favor in the midst of one of our country’s greatest tragedies: the bombings of Sept. 11.  We were drawn closer together as a family through the aftermath; we had just visited Mount Rushmore the night before and were headed east.  We saw people of our country come together to pray in places you wouldn’t have imagined like the parking lot of the Mall of America in Minneapolis for a candlelight vigil.  We went to church in places around the country and worshiped with strangers but didn’t feel strange.  Our trip was unique for many reasons but the timing in history makes it standout to this day.

This scrapbook journal box says it all

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You may not be ready to hit the road yet.  Camping isn’t easy for everyone I know.   I may not have convinced anyone to pack up right now, but I hope you’ll consider camping as an option for fun things to do with your family.  Get together with another family as I mentioned in my earlier post.  Go to a local county park so you’re close to home in case something happens that you feel you can’t handle (health issues, sleeping bag wetting, etc.).  At least give it a try!

Do you have a success story to share?  Encourage another family by commenting!

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Parenting, Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: campfires, camping, road trip, s'mores, travel

Family Fun Fridays

September 12, 2014 By Lisa Lewis

A friend posted a parenting question on Facebook recently.  “What do you like to do with your kids for FUN?”

I heard (or at least imagined) in her words a plea for something out of the ordinary.  Something everyone would like.  Something memorable.

Much of what moms do can be so ordinary: grocery shop, prepare meals (that get complaints), laundry, teach manners, teach pick up and put away (again and again and again), change diapers, clean up messes, clean up tiffs between siblings, repeat.  Wanting to know what others do for fun made sense to me.  When I was in the throes of parenting, I did not want to be the mom remembered for always being serious (“Oh I’m sorry you made that choice…”)

I also knew this Facebook friend was crowd sourcing (which is a great way to get a bunch of ideas all in one place) but her question gave me an idea for a Friday blog series; hence the title: Family Fun Fridays.

To start us off on this weekly venture I texted my sons (who are grown men in case you just dropped by) asking them what they remember of fun things we did together.  Happily they quickly texted with favorites that made me smile.  Number one for both of them?  Camping.

Now before you throw your arms up and tell me you hate camping, please hear me out.  I know that not all you parents grew up in families that camped, so lack of experience may keep you from it.  You might think it’s an expensive way to get outdoors.  It can be if you think you need every bell and whistle to be able to camp. I’ll say, Not Necessary.  If you live in a city, getting out past the boundaries of crowded civilization will do all of you good.  If you live near the great outdoors but haven’t gone camping as a family yet, give it a try!

Where else can you let your little boy do this?

Kurt in Yosemite campsite

(without worrying about how much the water costs?)  Playing in water, dirt, sand, whatever, is a child’s slice of heaven.  What great memories!

Here’s an idea, go camping with another family whose kids are near your kids ages.  It’s a great way to share expenses, keep your kids entertained so you can rest a bit and get vitamin D for everyone!

Brownings & Schwabs

Growing up, my parents always included another family in our camping trips.  We went to Yosemite for two weeks one summer and Lake Tahoe for two weeks the next summer.  My brother and I grew up with these kids.  Their family lived in another part of our city so we only went to school with them once we got to high school, but by then it was so helpful to know someone in such a big school.  But I digress…

Mom & me in Yosemite campsite

If you’re worried about dirt conflicting with fashion, you can tell my mom managed to overcome the conflict.  I on the other hand cleaned off in the river daily!

Remember, family fun is supposed to be out of the ordinary.  Memorable.  Camping certainly provides those two aspects.  Where else can you do this with your kids?

Mom & Kurt getting water

In the midst of all the fun outdoors is the very real opportunity to look around at God’s Creation and appreciate the beauty He blessed us with and intends for us to enjoy.

Mom & me at half dome

This was my first camping trip at age 3.  (please note all you dirt phobs; she’s wearing WHITE shorts) My early experiences with mountains and trees still cause me to pause, look up and give thanks to a great big God who made all this beauty.

Yes I grew up going camping so it was a natural thing to want to do with my own kids.  But that didn’t mean I didn’t have to make a list of things to pack.

Camping can be simple.  Try one weekend. Cereal for breakfast. Sandwiches for lunch. Mac n cheese for dinner. (jazz it up with peas and tuna!) S’mores for dessert!!

Borrow things before you invest to see if you really want to commit.

Go with another family who has other stuff like a tent, stove, lantern, etc.

Go.  You may find you like it.  You may also find that your children have memories of outdoor fun that will last a lifetime.

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Parenting, Thankfulness Tagged With: camping, Creation, Lake Tahoe, tent, Yosemite

Meet Lisa…

I am a native California girl married to my best friend, Colin; we currently live and work in the Silicon Valley. I am privileged to be mom to two fantastic grown sons, mom-in-law to a wonderful daughter, and recent Mimi to a grand-daughter! On any given Saturday, you can see my hubster and I out on our tandem bike somewhere, enjoying the beauty of creation! Read More…

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