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Can Fiction Save Your Sanity?

November 6, 2015 By Lisa Lewis

Once there was a little girl with a bright, inquisitive mind who possessed a passion for consuming the written word. She read good books, books beyond her years. She often searched for the meaning of an unknown word in the library-sized dictionary her mother purchased for just such occasions. Her understanding of words grew and so did her vocabulary; it was one area she received affirmation from her mother, from whom an encouraging word was rarely heard.

From all appearances the little girl’s world was lovely; she had her own room with a full size canopy bed, matching furniture, and her very own bookshelf filled with her familiar friends —books.

At 9 she was the possessor of her very own library card; a ticket to freedom and imagination. Trips to the library were regular, but she had always finished her books sooner than the trip to seek new ones, which left her to develop a habit of re-reading one of the favorites. Books were safe. They provided a way of escape from the chaos of her home life. She would go to her room to lose herself in a book as often as opportunity provided.  This little one had to find a way out from the tension, the turmoil of parents whose lives were stretched too thin with tempers to prove it. Her only brother was often the cause of chaos at home; born too soon in an era without knowledge or resources to aid families with difficult children; his special needs were not visibly obvious so his outbursts and behaviors were often shamed. Teachers mis-understood him, family mis-understood him and he was often considered a “problem”. So sad…

It was during these years of childhood she learned to “go away” in her imagination; carrying the characters and dialogue, settings and events of books as internal comfort within the external chaos. Her imagination saved her…

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A great-aunt wisely sent the little girl a very special series of books. Special because her middle name and the main character’s name are the same. Special because they were all hard-back, grown up looking books with beautiful book jackets. These books were published the year her mother was born and that made them OLD.

Anne’s story was intriguing to the little girl from the first pages. Set in a part of the world and a time in history she was not familiar with, the little girl wanted to know where Prince Edward Island was, if it was a real place. She ran downstairs to search the family encyclopedia; P.E.Island was real and was located off the coast of the Canadian province of Nova Scotia. If Prince Edward Island was real, then Anne could be real too!

It didn’t take long for the little Anne to fall madly in love with Anne Shirley. She wished her hair was a lovely auburn, she grew her brown hair long to be able to braid it. She painted on her play house door “Green Gables”.  Little Anne was caught up in the beauty and freedom of imagination.

“Isn’t it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive—it’s such an interesting world. It wouldn’t be half so interesting if we knew all about everything, would it? There’d be no scope for imagination then, would there?”

Scope for imagination. Kindred spirits. Love for Octobers.

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Ah what would I have done without the Great White Way or imagining the possibility of a bosom friend like Diana?

I am so thankful that my Great-Aunt Mildred sent me those precious books at a time in life that was so challenging.

If you have not read Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery, I highly recommend it.  To quote another great author:

“No book is really worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally – and often far more – worth reading at the age of fifty and beyond.” C.S.Lewis

Filed Under: Book Recommendation, Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: Anne of Green Gables, L.M.Montgomery

30 Days of Giving #7: Read

November 7, 2013 By Lisa Lewis

Gloucester Cathedral doorIt is so appropriate that on the 7th post in this 30 Days of Giving that Read is today’s gift.

I used to read to hide; now I read to be found.

Reading books has been a part of my life since I was 3.  According to my Mom’s stories, her first born prodigy was reading Mother Goose alone out loud at the age of 3.  I received a lot of encouragement to read.

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And reading is what I turned to when life got chaotic.

Around the age of 10 my mother went back to school at night to get a Master’s degree that would garner a higher salary as a teacher. My brother was 6 and his special needs were revealing themselves at school: attention deficit and some processing disorders. A true spectrum child.  In those days there wasn’t the level of knowledge or support either for home or school; emotional outbursts and disruptive behavior were seen as bad behavior not as a cry for help by a child trapped in a body that wouldn’t or couldn’t do what was asked.

My Dad was working 6 days a week at a job that wasn’t his passion; he was a man meant to work with his hands creating things. But there is no money in that. So between work that was passionless, a son that was out of control, a wife that was gone all day and late into the night, losing oneself in TV and beer was the best course.

All of this was too much for me, so I would get lost in books.

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Upstairs in my room with the door open to keep an ear attuned to when someone was heading up the stairs, I would go away to Prince Edward Island. Anne Shirley became my expression of freedom and precocious behavior that I wasn’t allowed. I read every single Lucy Maud Montgomery book in succession. I had the entire original edition series in hardback thanks to my great-aunt Mildred who worked in a children’s bookstore in Wichita Falls, Texas.

Anne with an E. That’s me. Lisa Anne.  My mother was Betty Anne.  She refused to be called Betty. Her grandmother was Anne Elizabeth.  Lots of Anne with an E in our family.  I didn’t get to pass that along to either of my sons; somehow it just didn’t fit…

Reading allowed me a place of escape, a place of refuge, a place of enjoyment.  Of course I didn’t realize all this at that time. Coming back from the imaginary lives of these well written characters to the reality of the chaotic life I which I was a real life character was jarring sometimes.  Visions of cherry trees in blossom being called the Great White Way; Anne and Diana playing together were helpful internal escapes when the yelling and crying started.

The yelling and crying continued for the next 7 years and I suspect it continued after I graduated and moved away to college. I turned down UCLA because we lived too close for me to be in the dorms and I just couldn’t continue to live at home. The chaos was excruciating.

But the shelter of books changed in college. There was no time for pleasure reading to hide from the hurts of my childhood. So I chose to numb out in other ways while books became tools for grades and accomplishment instead.

As a teacher and later as a parent I reconnected with the joy of story as I shared my early-  love of reading with children. Oh how I love to watch the faces of children as they listen to a good story unfold!  Reading aloud to my students and my sons, helping children see with the eyes of imagination was my favorite part of working with children.

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Reconnecting with stories and seeing with redeemed eyes has been the deepest pleasure; imagined story that connects with the One True Story giving way to seeing how our stories connect with His story…so good! Great literature does that well.

Books remain my best source of growth, imagination and relaxation.  Reading is something I make time for daily even if it’s only ten minutes here or there; reading is still a passion even without external chaos.

Do you read? Is it a place of refuge? What do you like to read?

Filed Under: Encouragement, Personal Tagged With: Anne of Green Gables, children, L.M.Montgomery, literature, Mary Engelbreit, reading

Meet Lisa…

I am a native California girl married to my best friend, Colin; we currently live and work in the Silicon Valley. I am privileged to be mom to two fantastic grown sons, mom-in-law to a wonderful daughter, and recent Mimi to a grand-daughter! On any given Saturday, you can see my hubster and I out on our tandem bike somewhere, enjoying the beauty of creation! Read More…

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