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Family Fun Fridays: Camping Re-visited

September 19, 2014 By Lisa Lewis

It’s Friday. Maybe you’re exhausted from this first month of school.  Maybe you’re excited about what you might do with your family as the fall is easing into view in the weather and on the calendar.  Either way, I want to encourage you to think about getting outside with your littles and enjoying God’s beautiful gifts of Creation.

Whether you take them to the park, the beach, or the school playground, getting outdoors is an important part of childhood.  Having adventures together as a family is fun and memorable.

We’re a camping family.  Ever since the boys were babies we’ve camped.  They loved to go up the coast into the redwoods. They loved to camp near the beach to go boogie boarding.  They loved campfires (building and lighting, they’re boys after all) and especially loved the eventual s’mores.

We got the wild idea in the spring of 2001 that we should take the boys out of school (WHAT!!??) and camp around the country; giving them a taste of the grandeur and immensity of this nation.  We planned for months! We taped a map on the wall and let the boys put map pins on the places they wanted to see.  The Hubster and I added our own pins, too. We researched destinations and estimated costs; plotting a course that would circumnavigate the lower 48 states.

And we did it in this

van

This trip was pre-smart phone and google maps.  We had a gps and a phone that would connect to the internet via dial up modem (ancient tech history) which worked 1 out of 10 times!

We camped on average 5 out of 7 days; stopping to visit family and friends around the country.  We listened to music, sang songs, hiked beautiful trails, saw amazing vistas, met wonderful people and most of all, made memories.  Seeing historic places first hand, rather than in books, made a huge difference in appreciation of what the Minutemen had to go through or why the battle at Gettysburg cost the lives of so many.  Both of our sons grew up loving history; due in part to this trip of living history.

Like labor & delivery, there were hard parts but the good outweighed the bad.  We got one speeding ticket (seriously? in a fully loaded VW?); had a few emotional meltdowns (mom hates wind, bridges and semi-trucks); but were blessed with no mechanical issues and almost a completely healthy trip (dad got an ear infection).

It wasn’t always neat and tidy

inside of van

but the four of us managed to live in here and get along for the months of September and October of 2001.  Our sons were 13 and 6. Yes, that is a 7 year gap. In school they wouldn’t have see one another; too many years between them. But on the road trip they learned together, had fun together, argued about space together, and learned to resolve conflict without being sent to their rooms.  We read the Bible together, talked about God’s creativity as we witnessed so many different rock formations, rivers, trees, and people.  He covered our trip with favor in the midst of one of our country’s greatest tragedies: the bombings of Sept. 11.  We were drawn closer together as a family through the aftermath; we had just visited Mount Rushmore the night before and were headed east.  We saw people of our country come together to pray in places you wouldn’t have imagined like the parking lot of the Mall of America in Minneapolis for a candlelight vigil.  We went to church in places around the country and worshiped with strangers but didn’t feel strange.  Our trip was unique for many reasons but the timing in history makes it standout to this day.

This scrapbook journal box says it all

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You may not be ready to hit the road yet.  Camping isn’t easy for everyone I know.   I may not have convinced anyone to pack up right now, but I hope you’ll consider camping as an option for fun things to do with your family.  Get together with another family as I mentioned in my earlier post.  Go to a local county park so you’re close to home in case something happens that you feel you can’t handle (health issues, sleeping bag wetting, etc.).  At least give it a try!

Do you have a success story to share?  Encourage another family by commenting!

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Parenting, Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: campfires, camping, road trip, s'mores, travel

30 Days of Giving #22: Have You Ever Wondered?

November 26, 2013 By Lisa Lewis

Have you ever wondered what your life might have been like had you been born in another time or place?

I do. I imagine a lot.

Travel.  Read.  Learn.

Some of my favorite things.

We were privileged to travel together on a business trip that took us to the UK.  We ate in places where locals eat; not chain restaurants from the US (they are there).  We threw our regular way of eating out the window; embracing local favorites like “Toad in the Hole”

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No trip to the United Kingdom would be complete without scones with clotted cream

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There is something romantic for me about the UK. Not romantic like kiss-kiss but in the connection to something bigger, a bigger story than my own.
Do you ever feel the need to know you’re connected to the past? I’ve heard people of different ethnic groups express this when they have traveled to their country of origin so I know I am not completely off my rocker here. I have been able to travel to the UK twice and both times I was deeply moved by the sense of connection to ancient origins.
Take a moment and read this plaque posted within the ancient walls of Gloucester Cathedral:

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For 1000 years a place of prayer.
Nothing in the US built by human hands is 1000 years old.
I stood wondering of the lives who offered prayers to the same triune God because of whom I live and breathe and have my very being.
Their challenges were different to be sure. But Solomon told us longer ago that there is nothing new under the sun. We might argue that technology, scientific discoveries, medicine are all examples of “new” things since Solomon wrote those words. But I think he spoke of something different; I think he spoke of human nature.
Our internal struggles with value, self-worth, relationships with others and with God are all the same struggles the people of south-west England dealt with over 1000 years ago.
My connection to the past is through the Cross.
We all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. All.
We all have been invited to live a with God life while we are here on earth.
We all have seen the war within as the conflict between two natures rages as we work out our salvation. Not work for. Work out.
Allow God to be seen in us and through us in the way we live our lives.
Simply peeling potatoes or doing laundry. Interacting with family that may be as near strangers through limits of time and space.
God has not changed. Countries change. Cultures change. We change. God does not change.
This Truth is the comforting connection that I arrived at as I stood wondering.

Filed Under: Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: Gloucester Cathedral, history, travel, wonder

30 Days of Giving #21: Travel Musings

November 25, 2013 By Lisa Lewis

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Today’s musings actually were written on 11/21 as we flew from San Francisco to Orlando.
a cross country flight
a middle seat
a view
of sorts
sun glistening the fresh dusting of the mountains
an overnight snowfall
from 30,000 feet looks like powdered sugar on the mounds of earth far below
childlike i lean forward to catch a glimpse of the majesty
very undignified my leaning
smiling i realize dignity is not an external
dignity is a concept that comes from within
like many of the outward affects
not worn but lived

too bad others didn’t learn the lesson of inward cultivation
too bad others didn’t take time to slow down
to look
to wonder
to catch glimpses of the Divine in the world

Filed Under: Personal, Thankfulness Tagged With: divine, musings, travel

Meet Lisa…

I am a native California girl married to my best friend, Colin; we currently live and work in the Silicon Valley. I am privileged to be mom to two fantastic grown sons, mom-in-law to a wonderful daughter, and recent Mimi to a grand-daughter! On any given Saturday, you can see my hubster and I out on our tandem bike somewhere, enjoying the beauty of creation! Read More…

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