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On Sports Fans and Belonging

March 31, 2014 By Lisa Lewis

There are two sports teams our family follows; one college and one professional.

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We sport our colors. Our decals. Our flags. We can get a little animated.  Loud. Dare I say, fanatic about our teams.

But that’s what fans do. They participate.  Support. Cheer. Are faithful regardless of the wins.

Our Florida Gators have survived and advanced to the Final Four of March Madness.  It’s great to be a Florida Gator.

Today is Opening Day for the 2014 MLB Season.  Our SF Giants theme this year: Stronger Together.

You may not like either of our family’s team choices.  That’s ok.  You may have a team or teams you prefer.  That’s ok too. You may not be a sports fan at all. And that is also perfectly fine. (although my instagram, facebook and twitter feed may annoy you in the coming weeks)

Regardless of your sports preference, all fans and the rest of the world have something in common.

A need for belonging.

We’re wired for a sense of community.  Regardless of culture, socio-economic factors, country of origin or gender, we are wired for the need to belong.  We want to belong within a family. We show our desire for belonging  in so many ways: neighborhood gatherings, organizations we join. In ways we serve others. Community activism. Knitting groups. I’m sure we can name a long list to prove this point: we all want and need a sense of belonging.

I used the word “wired”.  I really believe that we are hard-wired to belong and need to connect with others because we are all created in the image of our Maker.  He is in perfect community within the Trinity: Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  He has made us needing community because we bear His image; regardless of whether we acknowledge His existing Presence or not.

And regardless of our acknowledgement, He reached out to us to bring us into community with Him.  Because of His great love for each one of us.

So we need to seek community.  When we don’t have a sense of community, we can spiral downward and out of control.  It doesn’t take much searching to see the devastating results of extended isolation or rejection from community.  The news stations report the results daily.  On our own without a God-oriented life we can lose our way and get off in the weeds.  But when our sense of belonging is re-calibrated into God-centered community every other aspect of life begins to re-calibrate as well.  We don’t suddenly become a different person, we slowly become a more obvious image bearer.  Christian terms call it Christ-likeness.  We won’t ever become Jesus, but over the course of our with-God life, our community life becomes more about others and less about self.

So whether you are cheering a team on today’s Opening Day or are sad your alma mater’s team didn’t make it to the Final Four or even if sports are off your radar altogether, you are an image bearer. The imago dei.  You belong.

 

Oh and Go Giants!  And Go Gators!

 

If you haven’t yet reconciled all of life into a with God life, I’d love to talk with you more.  All comments are moderated by me before publication so you may contact me here without anyone else seeing your comment first.

 

 

 

 

Filed Under: Encouragement, Personal Tagged With: community, Florida Gators, March Madness, MLB 2014, Opening Day, sense of belonging, SF Giants, Stronger Together, Trinity

Less Really is More

March 2, 2013 By Lisa Lewis

Yesterday I didn’t post, I experienced.

This week of Lent the focus has been the spiritual discipline of fasting. This discipline challenges me. I don’t remember a time when I truly fasted for spiritual reasons. I remember lots of attempts and just as many failures. Medical fasts yes, spiritual, no.

I think I was afraid. Not sure of what, but fear is something that I felt as I read the first entry in my Lenten devotional, Less is More. Maybe i feared failure again? As the week went on I faced the unknown fear head on; fasting differently each day ( one meal, a couple of days and then two meals). Thursday night I purposed to fast through until dinner Friday.

The devotional question on Friday was a contemplative one: How does fasting connect us with the life of God, the lives of others?

It’s a great question.

Being invited into the Life of the Trinity: Father, Son and Holy Spirit, is an invitation open to all Christ followers, but how much do I treasure the invitation? Am I so constantly busy that I can’t slow down enough to hear or see?

Yesterday I slowed. The day was fairly routine; I walked the dog, pulled weeds, did laundry, cleaned a portion of the house, did dishes. Nothing spectacular. But it was different. God was in it with me in a new way.

Every time I try to write what the day was like, words escape. Here’s one: Joy-filled. Peaceful. Good. Self-control. Yes, I experienced the Fruit of the Spirit in new ways. It was definitely worth it.

When hunger rumbled, I thought about Haiti. I thought about Sri Lanka. India. Inner city LA. The homeless in our community. Children around the world. My hunger was temporary; theirs often ending only when they see the Face of God.

This experience was blessed. I will endeavor a fast again.

What have been your experiences with fasting?

Filed Under: Encouragement, Personal, Spiritual Disciplines Tagged With: community, connection, fasting, God, Lent, Trinity

Meet Lisa…

I am a native California girl married to my best friend, Colin; we currently live and work in the Silicon Valley. I am privileged to be mom to two fantastic grown sons, mom-in-law to a wonderful daughter, and recent Mimi to a grand-daughter! On any given Saturday, you can see my hubster and I out on our tandem bike somewhere, enjoying the beauty of creation! Read More…

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